most of us hate to be lied to and if we happen to find out that that someone we love has lied to us be it fren, bf or gf, we will be upset, but have we ever thot that sometimes, we are the very ones that may have prompted the other party to lie just because we cant handle the truth?
how many times have we showed displeasure or be upset when being told the truth? naturally, so as not to incur the wrath or make the other party upset, we tell a white lie since oblivion is bliss...some pple are willing to be lied at just to hold on to the relationship but its not healthy if too much is kept from each other... love is base on acceptance and understanding of a person character, habit and flaws...
sometimes we try to change a habit which we interpret as bad, not a bad thing if you show encouragement to help change the habit but dont get upset and frustrated when a habit is not dropped... if it was that easy to drop, it wouldnt be called a habit in the 1st place would it? understand why it is hard to drop the habit instead of just showing tantrums...
wilbur supports wiki! don't u?
