like withholding from being outrightly frank (which would come across as mean) to those who are in constant delusion...
skills can be taught to beautify but sadly, the ability to assess the right amount of beautification is missing which leads to uglification of the original =S
the horrifying part is when careless observers sing praises of the disfigurement, leading to more self-delusionment and the cycle of viciousness continues on and on...
so which would u rather be?
a careless praiser or a mean samaritan?
